We spent our last evening in Paris with our old New York City neighbor’s sister. Here’s why that was special-

Our former upstairs neighbor-who I’ll call Ted-claimed to be an ‘entertainment lawyer’ at some point in his life. In his heyday, he ‘worked’ with the likes of John Lennon, Mick Jagger, Slash, Roger Waters, Steven Tyler-the list goes on. I’m not entirely sure any of this is true-I actually never believed anything he said.

He had a stoma, a large air hole, in his throat from too much smoking-so he always wore a bandana around his neck. Always. When he spoke, he placed his hand over this wind hole to produce a rough, raspy voice similar to a masculine Marge Simpson.

For the record-I am terribly fond of him. When I passed him on the stairs he would regale me with stories and then tell me how great I looked. I won’t lie-this was nice to hear when I was postpartum and didn’t sleep, exercise or eat anything but Oreos for three months straight.

One day, my now husband/then boyfriend and I saw him try to stuff a giant cardboard box into our recycling bin. He told us Slash-the very famous guitarist from Guns and Roses-had sent him a large, flat screen TV. This was circa 2006-before everyone you knew had a giant flat screen TV.  They still held a certain cache, if you will.

Still, we didn’t believe him.

A year later I attended an event with my now husband/then fiancé at the Wynn Hotel in Las Vegas-doesn’t that sound fancy? Rumor had it- somewhere in the giant ballroom lurked none other than Slash.

“Slash is somewhere in this ballroom,” I said to my ‘soon to be’ husband, “don’t you want to ask him if he really knows Ted?”

He didn’t especially want to, but it didn’t matter. We never saw him, anyway.

As the evening drew to a close, we walked back to our hotel room. There, in the distance, waaaaaaaaay out in front of us, drifted the tell-tale top hat of Slash himself. I quickened my step. Just as we arrived at the elevator banks, Slash and his wife stepped into the first car and the doors closed after them.

‘Uggggg,’ I thought, ‘We just missed our chance.’

Then a miracle happened. Slash opened the doors for us.  What a gentleman.

We slipped into the elevator and my brain lost the ability to form sentences. Here was our chance-it was just the four of us in here-just us, but I had no voice. I nudged my now husband as if to say-‘save this sinking ship!’  He did no such thing. Instead, we sat in that elevator, thought the same thoughts and wore the same goofy/demented smile on our face. Slash must still harbor regrets about holding those doors.

The elevator reached our floor. I stepped out, thoroughly disappointed in our future as a united front. We were engaged now after all. If we couldn’t handle this together, what would we be able to handle? We’d now never know if Ted was, in fact, a teller of truths or not.

But wait-

Slash and his wife stepped out onto our floor too. We could still do it-there was still hope. They walked slowly behind us.  I felt my heart beat inside my chest.

‘Come on,’ I said to myself, ‘just turn around and ask him, just do it for crying out loud.’

Just as I mustered up the nerve-we hit a T junction. Slash went to the right, we turned to the left. Crestfallen, I admitted defeat when I heard a soft voice say, “Slash, no. Come on, our room is this way.”

Slash’s wife calls him Slash.

OK. Well, that was it. Clearly, the powers that be had offered up an opportunity here. My husband shot me a look that said, ‘Don’t you dare bother him,’ but it was too late. When you are given not one, not two, but THREE chances to ask Slash a question-you had better do it.

“Um, excuse me?” squeaked out Cindy Loo Who, who replaced my adult voice, “I’m sorry to bother you.”

Slash honestly looked like he might topple me. In fact, he’d probably turned the wrong way at the T junction on purpose to get away from our moon faces. Before he could call security I blurted out, “Do you know Ted?”

He stopped and his whole disposition changed-his face melted into a big, slashy smile, “Yeah, I know Ted.”

All clear, my husband jumped in at this point.  He explained the TV, how we thought Ted may not tell the truth-etc., etc. Then his wife asked, “Who’s Ted?”

Slash replied, “You know, Jack’s friend.  The one who’s always like…” he paused.  He placed his hand over his throat and in his best masculine Marge Simpson voice he said, “Hey Slash, what’s going on dude?”

Until the birth of our son, that may have been the single greatest moment of our lives.